net: make sch_handle_ingress() drop monitor ready

TC_ACT_STOLEN is used when ingress traffic is mirred/redirected
to say ifb.

Packet is not dropped, but consumed.

Only TC_ACT_SHOT is a clear indication something went wrong.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Cc: Jamal Hadi Salim <jhs@mojatatu.com>
Acked-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Jamal Hadi Salim <jhs@mojatatu.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>