netfilter: nfnetlink_cttimeout: fetch timeouts for udplite and gre, too

syzbot was able to trigger the WARN in cttimeout_default_get() by
passing UDPLITE as l4protocol.  Alias UDPLITE to UDP, both use
same timeout values.

Furthermore, also fetch GRE timeouts.  GRE is a bit more complicated,
as it still can be a module and its netns_proto_gre struct layout isn't
visible outside of the gre module. Can't move timeouts around, it
appears conntrack sysctl unregister assumes net_generic() returns
nf_proto_net, so we get crash. Expose layout of netns_proto_gre instead.

A followup nf-next patch could make gre tracker be built-in as well
if needed, its not that large.

Last, make the WARN() mention the missing protocol value in case
anything else is missing.

Reported-by:  <syzbot+2fae8fa157dd92618cae@syzkaller.appspotmail.com>
Fixes: 8866df92 ("netfilter: nfnetlink_cttimeout: pass default timeout policy to obj_to_nlattr")
Signed-off-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>