btrfs: Add "barrier" option to support "-o remount,barrier"

Btrfs can be remounted without barrier, but there is no "barrier" option
so nobody can remount btrfs back with barrier on. Only umount and
mount again can re-enable barrier.(Quite awkward)

Also the mount options in the document is also changed slightly for the
further pairing options changes.

Reported-by: Daniel Blueman <daniel@quora.org>
Signed-off-by: Qu Wenruo <quwenruo@cn.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Fleetwood <mike.fleetwood@googlemail.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.cz>
Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <jbacik@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Chris Mason <clm@fb.com>