ocfs2/dlm: return in progress if master can not clear the refmap bit right now

Master returns in-progress to non-master node when it can not clear the
refmap bit right now.  And non-master node will not purge the lock
resource until receiving deref done message.

Signed-off-by: xuejiufei <xuejiufei@huawei.com>
Cc: Mark Fasheh <mfasheh@suse.de>
Cc: Joel Becker <jlbec@evilplan.org>
Cc: Junxiao Bi <junxiao.bi@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Joseph Qi <joseph.qi@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrew Morton <akpm@linux-foundation.org>
Signed-off-by: Linus Torvalds <torvalds@linux-foundation.org>