nfsd: Protect adding/removing open state owners using client_lock

Once we remove client mutex protection, we'll need to ensure that
stateowner lookup and creation are atomic between concurrent compounds.
Ensure that alloc_init_open_stateowner checks the hashtable under the
client_lock before adding a new element.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>