nfp: bpf: improve wrong FW response warnings

When FW responds with a message of wrong size or type make sure
the type is checked first and included in the wrong size message.
This makes it easier to figure out which FW command failed.

Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <jakub.kicinski@netronome.com>
Reviewed-by: Quentin Monnet <quentin.monnet@netronome.com>
Reviewed-by: Jiong Wang <jiong.wang@netronome.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>