nvme: use a single NVME_AQ_DEPTH and relax it to 32

No need to differentiate fabrics from pci/loop, also lower
it to 32 as we don't really need 256 inflight admin commands.

Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Reviewed-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Max Gurtovoy <maxg@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>