RDMA/core: Use common code flow for IPv4/6 for addr resolve

Use common code flow for resolving neighbour and for finding source
addresses.

Signed-off-by: Parav Pandit <parav@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Daniel Jurgens <danielj@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>