9p: Add refcount to p9_req_t

To avoid use-after-free(s), use a refcount to keep track of the
usable references to any instantiated struct p9_req_t.

This commit adds p9_req_put(), p9_req_get() and p9_req_try_get() as
wrappers to kref_put(), kref_get() and kref_get_unless_zero().
These are used by the client and the transports to keep track of
valid requests' references.

p9_free_req() is added back and used as callback by kref_put().

Add SLAB_TYPESAFE_BY_RCU as it ensures that the memory freed by
kmem_cache_free() will not be reused for another type until the rcu
synchronisation period is over, so an address gotten under rcu read
lock is safe to inc_ref() without corrupting random memory while
the lock is held.

Link: http://lkml.kernel.org/r/1535626341-20693-1-git-send-email-asmadeus@codewreck.org
Co-developed-by: Dominique Martinet <dominique.martinet@cea.fr>
Signed-off-by: Tomas Bortoli <tomasbortoli@gmail.com>
Reported-by:  <syzbot+467050c1ce275af2a5b8@syzkaller.appspotmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Dominique Martinet <dominique.martinet@cea.fr>