xfrm: Add xfrm_tunnel_skb_cb to the skb common buffer

IPsec vti_rcv needs to remind the tunnel pointer to
check it later at the vti_rcv_cb callback. So add
this pointer to the IPsec common buffer, initialize
it and check it to avoid transport state matching of
a tunneled packet.

Signed-off-by: Steffen Klassert <steffen.klassert@secunet.com>