net/smc: add infrastructure to send delete rkey messages

Add the infrastructure to send LLC messages of type DELETE RKEY to
unregister a shared memory region at the peer.

Signed-off-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>