tools: sync linux/bpf.h

Synchronize changes to linux/bpf.h from
* "bpf: allow zero-initializing hash map seed"
* "bpf: move BPF_F_QUERY_EFFECTIVE after map flags"

Signed-off-by: Lorenz Bauer <lmb@cloudflare.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>