md: fix deadlock when stopping arrays

Resolve a deadlock when stopping redundant arrays, i.e. ones that
require a call to sysfs_remove_group when shutdown.  The deadlock is
summarized below:

Thread1                Thread2
-------                -------
read sysfs attribute   stop array
                       take mddev lock
                       sysfs_remove_group
sysfs_get_active
wait for mddev lock
                       wait for active

Sysrq-w:
--------
mdmon         S 00000017  2212  4163      1
  f1982ea8 00000046 2dcf6b85 00000017 c0b23100 f2f83ed0 c0b23100 f2f8413c
  c0b23100 c0b23100 c0b1fb98 f2f8413c 00000000 f2f8413c c0b23100 f2291ecc
  00000002 c0b23100 00000000 00000017 f2f83ed0 f1982eac 00000046 c044d9dd
Call Trace:
  [<c044d9dd>] ? debug_mutex_add_waiter+0x1d/0x58
  [<c06ef451>] __mutex_lock_common+0x1d9/0x338
  [<c06ef451>] ? __mutex_lock_common+0x1d9/0x338
  [<c06ef5e3>] mutex_lock_interruptible_nested+0x33/0x3a
  [<c0634553>] ? mddev_lock+0x14/0x16
  [<c0634553>] mddev_lock+0x14/0x16
  [<c0634eda>] md_attr_show+0x2a/0x49
  [<c04e9997>] sysfs_read_file+0x93/0xf9
mdadm         D 00000017  2812  4177      1
  f0401d78 00000046 430456f8 00000017 f0401d58 f0401d20 c0b23100 f2da2c4c
  c0b23100 c0b23100 c0b1fb98 f2da2c4c 0a10fc36 00000000 c0b23100 f0401d70
  00000003 c0b23100 00000000 00000017 f2da29e0 00000001 00000002 00000000
Call Trace:
  [<c06eed1b>] schedule_timeout+0x1b/0x95
  [<c06eed1b>] ? schedule_timeout+0x1b/0x95
  [<c06eeb97>] ? wait_for_common+0x34/0xdc
  [<c044fa8a>] ? trace_hardirqs_on_caller+0x18/0x145
  [<c044fbc2>] ? trace_hardirqs_on+0xb/0xd
  [<c06eec03>] wait_for_common+0xa0/0xdc
  [<c0428c7c>] ? default_wake_function+0x0/0x12
  [<c06eeccc>] wait_for_completion+0x17/0x19
  [<c04ea620>] sysfs_addrm_finish+0x19f/0x1d1
  [<c04e920e>] sysfs_hash_and_remove+0x42/0x55
  [<c04eb4db>] sysfs_remove_group+0x57/0x86
  [<c0638086>] do_md_stop+0x13a/0x499

This has been there for a while, but is easier to trigger now that mdmon
is closely watching sysfs.

Cc: <stable@kernel.org>
Reported-by: Jacek Danecki <jacek.danecki@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>