lockd: Fix server refcounting

The server shouldn't actually delete the struct nlm_host until it hits
the garbage collector. In order to make that work correctly with the
refcount API, we can bump the refcount by one, and then use
refcount_dec_if_one() in the garbage collector.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trondmy@gmail.com>
Acked-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@fieldses.org>