md: prepare for managing resync I/O pages in clean way

Now resync I/O use bio's bec table to manage pages,
this way is very hacky, and may not work any more
once multipage bvec is introduced.

So introduce helpers and new data structure for
managing resync I/O pages more cleanly.

Signed-off-by: Ming Lei <tom.leiming@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Shaohua Li <shli@fb.com>