net: dsa: introduce dsa_towards_port helper

Add a new helper returning the local port used to reach an arbitrary
switch port in the fabric.

Its only user at the moment is the dsa_upstream_port helper, which
returns the local port reaching the dedicated CPU port, but it will be
used in cross-chip FDB operations.

Signed-off-by: Vivien Didelot <vivien.didelot@savoirfairelinux.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>