fsnotify: let connector point to an abstract object

Make the code to attach/detach a connector to object more generic
by letting the fsnotify connector point to an abstract fsnotify_connp_t.
Code that needs to dereference an inode or mount object now uses the
helpers fsnotify_conn_{inode,mount}.

Signed-off-by: Amir Goldstein <amir73il@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>