xfs: add support for passing in write hints for buffered writes

Reviewed-by: Andreas Dilger <adilger@dilger.ca>
Reviewed-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>