IB/hfi1: Only reset QSFP after link up and turn off AOC TX

QSFP reset enables AOC transmitters by default. They should be off
before moving to high power mode to complete the setup. There is no
need to reset the QSFP during LNI failure as it was reset at link down.

Reviewed-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Jakub Byczkowski <jakub.byczkowski@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Sebastian Sanchez <sebastian.sanchez@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>