IB/mlx4: Add support for RSS QP

Add support to work with a RSS QP by using an indirection table object
upon QP creation. Other related QP verbs (e.g. modify/destroy/query) were
updated as well for that QP mode.

Notes:
- The RX hash properties are supplied as driver private data.
- The RSS QP port is used on the associated WQs in its indirection
  table. Applying different ports during WQ life time is not allowed.
- The expected RSS QP flow is: create, modify(RST->INIT),
  modify(RST->RTR), destroy.

Signed-off-by: Guy Levi <guyle@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Yishai Hadas <yishaih@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>