IB/hfi1: Switch from dma_device to dev.parent

Prepare for removal of ib_device.dma_device.

Signed-off-by: Bart Van Assche <bart.vanassche@sandisk.com>
Cc: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Cc: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>