tipc: add functionality to lookup multicast destination nodes

As a further preparation for the upcoming 'replicast' functionality,
we add some necessary structs and functions for looking up and returning
a list of all nodes that host destinations for a given multicast message.

Reviewed-by: Parthasarathy Bhuvaragan <parthasarathy.bhuvaragan@ericsson.com>
Acked-by: Ying Xue <ying.xue@windriver.com>
Signed-off-by: Jon Maloy <jon.maloy@ericsson.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>