kvm: Force IOMMU remapping on memory slot read-only flag changes

Memory slot flags can be altered without changing other parameters of
the slot.  The read-only attribute is the only one the IOMMU cares
about, so generate an un-map, re-map when this occurs.  This also
avoid unnecessarily re-mapping the slot when no IOMMU visible changes
are made.

Reviewed-by: Xiao Guangrong <xiaoguangrong@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Gleb Natapov <gleb@redhat.com>