dlm: check for null in device_write

If `device_write' method is called via "dlm-control",
file->private_data is NULL. (See ctl_device_open() in
user.c. ) Through proc->flags is read.

Signed-off-by: Masatake YAMATO <yamato@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David Teigland <teigland@redhat.com>