race of nfsd inetaddr notifiers vs nn->nfsd_serv change

nfsd_inet[6]addr_event uses nn->nfsd_serv without taking nfsd_mutex,
which can be changed during execution of notifiers and crash the host.

Moreover if notifiers were enabled in one net namespace they are enabled
in all other net namespaces, from creation until destruction.

This patch allows notifiers to access nn->nfsd_serv only after the
pointer is correctly initialized and delays cleanup until notifiers are
no longer in use.

Signed-off-by: Vasily Averin <vvs@virtuozzo.com>
Tested-by: Scott Mayhew <smayhew@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>