net/mlx5: E-Switch, Implement trust vf ndo

- Add support to configure trusted vf attribute through trust_vf_ndo.

- Upon VF trust setting change we update vport context to refresh
 allmulti/promisc or any trusted vf attributes that we didn't trust the
 VF for before.

- Lock the eswitch state lock on vport event in order to synchronise the
 vport context updates , this will prevent contention with vport trust
 setting change which will trigger vport mac list update.

Signed-off-by: Mohamad Haj Yahia <mohamad@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>