mlx5: Fix merge errors.

I accidently let Arnd's VXLAN dependency changes slip into net-next,
they are only appropriate for net.

Also the flow steering structural changes to mlx5e_priv got scrambled
during the merge resolution as well.

Fix that all up.

Reported-by: Stephen Rothwell <sfr@canb.auug.org.au>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>