nfsd: Add fine grained protection for the nfs4_file->fi_stateids list

Access to this list is currently serialized by the client_mutex. Add
finer grained locking around this list in preparation for its removal.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>