ceph: set dn offset when spliced

We want to assign an offset when the dentry goes from null to linked, which
is always done by splice_dentry().  Notably, we should NOT assign an
offset when a dentry is first created and is still null.

BUG if we try to splice a non-null dentry (we shouldn't).

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@newdream.net>