drm/amdgpu: add amdgpu_vm_update_func

Add helper to call the update function for both BO and shadow.

Signed-off-by: Christian König <christian.koenig@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Felix Kuehling <Felix.Kuehling@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Junwei Zhang <Jerry.Zhang@amd.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Deucher <alexander.deucher@amd.com>