nfsd/sunrpc: factor svc_rqst allocation and freeing from sv_nrthreads refcounting

In later patches, we'll want to be able to allocate and free svc_rqst
structures without monkeying with the serv->sv_nrthreads refcount.

Factor those pieces out of their respective functions.

Signed-off-by: Shirley Ma <shirley.ma@oracle.com>
Acked-by: Jeff Layton <jlayton@primarydata.com>
Tested-by: Shirley Ma <shirley.ma@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>