drm/i915: Move object close under its own lock

Use i915_gem_object_lock() to guard the LUT and active reference to
allow us to break free of struct_mutex for handling GEM_CLOSE.

Testcase: igt/gem_close_race
Testcase: igt/gem_exec_parallel
Signed-off-by: Chris Wilson <chris@chris-wilson.co.uk>
Reviewed-by: Matthew Auld <matthew.auld@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20190606112320.9704-1-chris@chris-wilson.co.uk