nfsd: Add a struct nfs4_file field to struct nfs4_stid

All stateids are associated with a nfs4_file. Let's consolidate.
Replace delegation->dl_file with the dl_stid.sc_file, and
nfs4_ol_stateid->st_file with st_stid.sc_file.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>