MD: move thread wakeups into resume

Move personality and sync/recovery thread starting outside md_run.

Moving the wakeup's of the personality and sync/recovery threads out of
md_run and into do_md_run and mddev_resume solves two issues:
1) It allows bitmap_load to be called before the sync_thread is run and
2) when MD personalities are used by device-mapper (dm-raid.c), the start-up
of the array is better alligned with device-mapper primatives
(CTR/resume/suspend/DTR).  I/O - in this case, recovery operations - should
not happen until after a resume has taken place.

Signed-off-by: Jonathan Brassow <jbrassow@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: NeilBrown <neilb@suse.de>