cxgb4: advertise support for FR_NSMR_TPTE_WR

Query firmware for the FW_PARAMS_PARAM_DEV_RI_FR_NSMR_TPTE_WR parameter.
If it exists and is 1, then advertise support for FR_NSMR_TPTE_WR to
the ULDs.

Signed-off-by: Steve Wise <swise@opengridcomputing.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>