tools: libbpf: add extended attributes version of bpf_object__open()

Similarly to bpf_prog_load() users of bpf_object__open() may need
to specify the expected program type.  Program type is needed at
open to avoid the kernel version check for program types which don't
require it.

Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <jakub.kicinski@netronome.com>
Reviewed-by: Quentin Monnet <quentin.monnet@netronome.com>
Acked-by: Andrey Ignatov <rdna@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>