KVM: Make KVM_PRIVATE_MEM_SLOTS optional

Seems like everyone copied x86 and defined 4 private memory slots
that never actually get used.  Even x86 only uses 3 of the 4.  These
aren't exposed so there's no need to add padding.

Reviewed-by: Gleb Natapov <gleb@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Marcelo Tosatti <mtosatti@redhat.com>