[SCTP] Implement Sec 2.41 of SCTP Implementers guide.

- Fixed sctp_vtag_verify_either() to comply with impguide 2.41 B) and C).
- Make sure vtag is reflected when T-bit is set in SHUTDOWN-COMPLETE sent
  due to an OOTB SHUTDOWN-ACK and in ABORT sent due to an OOTB packet.
- Do not set T-Bit in ABORT chunk in response to INIT.
- Fixed some comments to reflect the new meaning of the T-Bit.

Signed-off-by: Jerome Forissier <jerome.forissier@hp.com>
Signed-off-by: Sridhar Samudrala <sri@us.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>