block: Allow graph changes in subtree drained section

We need to remember how many of the drain sections in which a node is
were recursive (i.e. subtree drain rather than node drain), so that they
can be correctly applied when children are added or removed during the
drained section.

With this change, it is safe to modify the graph even inside a
bdrv_subtree_drained_begin/end() section.

Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>