resolve: when the stub listener is disabled, symlink stub-resolv.conf to resolv.conf

When the stub listener is disabled, stub-resolv.conf is useless. Instead of
warning about this, let's just make stub-resolv.conf point to the private
resolv.conf file. (The original bug report asked for "mirroring", but I think
a symlink is nicer than a copy because it is easier to see that a redirection
was made.)

Fixes #14700.