shared/calendarspec: abort calculation after 1000 iterations

We have a bug where we seem to enter an infinite loop when running in the
Europe/Dublin timezone. The timezone is "special" because it has negative SAVE
values. The handling of this should obviously be fixed, but let's use a
belt-and-suspenders approach, and gracefully fail if we fail to find an answer
within a specific number of attempts. The code in this function is rather
complex, and it's hard to rule out another bug in the future.

(cherry picked from commit 169615c9)
(cherry picked from commit f14b80e0)