cryptsetup-generator: unconfuse writing of the device timeout

The code was using timeout=0 as the default option string. This option string
was ultimately passed to generator_write_timeouts(), which only looks for
comment=systemd.device-timeout= or x-systemd.device-timeout=, i.e. the whole
call path was bogus. Let's rework this: generator_write_timeouts() now writes
any timeouts if configured by the user. create_disk() writes out it's own
timeout, but with lower priority. Since the code path that was calling
timeout=0 was not effective, the only change is that we stop overwriting the
timeout if explicitly configured by the user.

In both code paths, ignore failure to write.