missing_syscall: verify our fallback numbers when possible

Instead of defining the numbers only as fallback, always define our fallback
number, and if we have the real __NR_foo define, assert that our number matches
the real one.

This will result in warnings when our fallback number is not defined, even if
the kernel headers are new enough to define __NR_foo. This will probably annoy
people compiling for seldom-used architectures, but hopefully it'll provide
motivation to add the missing fallback defines.

The upside is that we have a higher chance of catching the cases where we got
the number wrong. Calling the wrong syscall is quite problematic, and with some
back luck, it might take us a long time to notice that we got the number wrong
on some rarely used architecture.

Also, rework some of the fallback wrappers to not call the syscall with a
negative number (that'd fail, but we'd got to the kernel and back). It seems
nicer to let the compiler know that this can never succeed.