shared/install: ignore symlinks which have lower priority than the unit file

In #10583, a unit file lives in ~/.config/systemd/user, and
'systemctl --runtime --user mask' is used to create a symlink in /run.
This symlink has lower priority than the config file, so
'systemctl --user' will happily load the unit file, and does't care about
the symlink at all.

But when asked if the unit is enabled, we'd look for all symlinks, find the
symlink in the runtime directory, and report that the unit is runtime-enabled.
In this particular case the fact that the symlink points at /dev/null, creates
additional confusion, but it doesn't really matter: *any* symlink (or regular
file) that is lower in the priority order is "covered" by the unit fragment,
and should be ignored.

Fixes #10583.