meson: update efi path detection to gnu-efi-3.0.11

Fixes systemd build in Fedora rawhide.

The old ldsdir option is not useful, because both the directory and the
file name changed. Let's remove the option and try to autodetect the file
name. If this turns out to be not enough, a new option to simply specify
the full path to the file can be added.

F31:
         efi arch:                          x86_64
         EFI machine type:                  x64
         EFI CC                             ccache cc
         EFI lds:                           /usr/lib64/gnuefi/elf_x64_efi.lds
         EFI crt0:                          /usr/lib64/gnuefi/crt0-efi-x64.o
         EFI include directory:             /usr/include/efi
F32:
         efi arch:                          x86_64
         EFI machine type:                  x64
         EFI CC                             ccache cc
         EFI lds:                           /usr/lib/gnuefi/x64/efi.lds
         EFI crt0:                          /usr/lib/gnuefi/x64/crt0.o
         EFI include directory:             /usr/include/efi
(cherry picked from commit ce4121c6)
(cherry picked from commit 3538fafb)
(cherry picked from commit 275b266b)