xfs: add bmapi nodiscard flag

Freed extents are unconditionally discarded when online discard is
enabled. Define XFS_BMAPI_NODISCARD to allow callers to bypass
discards when unnecessary. For example, this will be useful for
eofblocks trimming.

This patch does not change behavior.

Signed-off-by: Brian Foster <bfoster@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>