of: Refactor node and property manipulation function locking

All callers of __of_{add,remove,update}_property() and
__of_{attach,detach}_node() wrap the call with the devtree_lock
spinlock. Let's move the spinlock into the functions. This allows moving
the sysfs update functions into those functions as well.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230801-dt-changeset-fixes-v3-6-5f0410e007dd@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Rob Herring <robh@kernel.org>