RDS: Remove struct rds_rdma_op

A big changeset, but it's all pretty dumb.

struct rds_rdma_op was already embedded in struct rm_rdma_op.
Remove rds_rdma_op and put its members in rm_rdma_op. Rename
members with "op_" prefix instead of "r_", for consistency.

Of course this breaks a lot, so fixup the code accordingly.

Signed-off-by: Andy Grover <andy.grover@oracle.com>