md-cluster: fix use-after-free issue when removing rdev

md_kick_rdev_from_array will remove rdev, so we should
use rdev_for_each_safe to search list.

How to trigger:

env: Two nodes on kvm-qemu x86_64 VMs (2C2G with 2 iscsi luns).

```
node2=192.168.0.3

for i in {1..20}; do
    echo ==== $i `date` ====;

    mdadm -Ss && ssh ${node2} "mdadm -Ss"
    wipefs -a /dev/sda /dev/sdb

    mdadm -CR /dev/md0 -b clustered -e 1.2 -n 2 -l 1 /dev/sda \
       /dev/sdb --assume-clean
    ssh ${node2} "mdadm -A /dev/md0 /dev/sda /dev/sdb"
    mdadm --wait /dev/md0
    ssh ${node2} "mdadm --wait /dev/md0"

    mdadm --manage /dev/md0 --fail /dev/sda --remove /dev/sda
    sleep 1
done
```

Crash stack:

```
stack segment: 0000 [#1] SMP
... ...
RIP: 0010:md_check_recovery+0x1e8/0x570 [md_mod]
... ...
RSP: 0018:ffffb149807a7d68 EFLAGS: 00010207
RAX: 0000000000000000 RBX: ffff9d494c180800 RCX: ffff9d490fc01e50
RDX: fffff047c0ed8308 RSI: 0000000000000246 RDI: 0000000000000246
RBP: 6b6b6b6b6b6b6b6b R08: ffff9d490fc01e40 R09: 0000000000000000
R10: 0000000000000001 R11: 0000000000000001 R12: 0000000000000000
R13: ffff9d494c180818 R14: ffff9d493399ef38 R15: ffff9d4933a1d800
FS:  0000000000000000(0000) GS:ffff9d494f700000(0000) knlGS:0000000000000000
CS:  0010 DS: 0000 ES: 0000 CR0: 0000000080050033
CR2: 00007fe68cab9010 CR3: 000000004c6be001 CR4: 00000000003706e0
DR0: 0000000000000000 DR1: 0000000000000000 DR2: 0000000000000000
DR3: 0000000000000000 DR6: 00000000fffe0ff0 DR7: 0000000000000400
Call Trace:
 raid1d+0x5c/0xd40 [raid1]
 ? finish_task_switch+0x75/0x2a0
 ? lock_timer_base+0x67/0x80
 ? try_to_del_timer_sync+0x4d/0x80
 ? del_timer_sync+0x41/0x50
 ? schedule_timeout+0x254/0x2d0
 ? md_start_sync+0xe0/0xe0 [md_mod]
 ? md_thread+0x127/0x160 [md_mod]
 md_thread+0x127/0x160 [md_mod]
 ? wait_woken+0x80/0x80
 kthread+0x10d/0x130
 ? kthread_park+0xa0/0xa0
 ret_from_fork+0x1f/0x40
```

Fixes: dbb64f86 ("md-cluster: Fix adding of new disk with new reload code")
Fixes: 659b254f ("md-cluster: remove a disk asynchronously from cluster environment")
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org
Reviewed-by: Gang He <ghe@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Heming Zhao <heming.zhao@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>