md-cluster: only call complete(&cinfo->completion) when node join cluster

Introduce MD_CLUSTER_BEGIN_JOIN_CLUSTER flag to make sure
complete(&cinfo->completion) is only be invoked when node
join cluster. Otherwise node failure could also call the
complete, and it doesn't make sense to do it.

Reviewed-by: Goldwyn Rodrigues <rgoldwyn@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Guoqing Jiang <gqjiang@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: NeilBrown <neilb@suse.com>